Intentional grandparenting isn’t just about serious stuff. You know what I mean -- always trying to find a "teachable moment" in every activity. After all, all work and no play can make grandpa (and grandma) people from whom the grandkids will want to get away. It is important to know that intentional grandparenting also involves just having some good time fun. Our grandchildren need time with us to play without any special purpose other than having a good time.

Sometimes, that may mean setting aside something we think is important, and taking some time to engage in some romper room activity. And it’s not just the younger kids that need us to play – our teenage grandchildren enjoy those lighter moments and fun adventures too. Of course, while all work and no play can make for a boring relationship, all play and no work can make for a very shallow relationship. As in all of life, balance is the word.

You might enjoy this insightful article, Swinging From The Rafters, written by Melodee Harman from a parent’s perspective. I think you will agree, it’s a good word for grandparents too.

So, roll on the floor, have a water fight, or swing from the rafters. It’s okay to be a “little crazy”. Your grandkids will love you for it!