I had a situation a number of years ago where I was very frustrated and held resentment in my heart about a situation. I kept asking God why? After struggling for about a year with this resentment, the Lord directed me to the story of Lazarus in John 11, where Jesus told his disciples, "This illness (situation) is not to end in death, but to promote the glory of God, in order that the Son of God may be glorified by it."

Then I asked God, "How are You going to be glorified through this situation"? He showed me his glory with the peace and contentment He gave me when I finally gave my resentment to him and forgave those involved in the situation.

What are you struggling with today? Are you harboring resentment in your heart? I recently talked with a grandparent who had resentment toward one of her children that was tearing up her heart because she couldn't see her grandchildren. When we hold resentment in our hearts, we are hurting ourselves emotionally and eventually physically. Resentment brings anger, bitterness, division and God does not want to share our heart with resentment.

If you have resentment in your heart toward your children, grandchildren or anyone, tell God how you feel, and ask Him to forgive you. (I John 1:9) Ask Him to replace your resentment with peace and love for that person. Don’t let the enemy distract you from experiencing the joy of the Lord in your heart.

© Lillian Penner

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#1 Sherri 2012-09-20 20:54

Thank You! for this thought. I am not sure what I am struggling with other than the enemy. I feel like a failure as a parent. I have a 32yr. old son who won't talk to me and hasn't in a yr. I have asked him why and he just says you know why. His father and I are divorced and he talks to his dad everyday. I have been told to leave him and his family alone. This hurts greatly as I can not even go see my grandchildren. They live far away from me. My other son is 28yrs. old and has many issues he struggles with won't listen to me. Neither of my sons are saved. I am crying and my heart hurts. I pray about this and reconciliation and restoration of relationships. My sons have not talked to each other in years. Many heartaches.

 

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