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Not on My Watch!

Engaging godly grandparents who are eager to represent Christ well to the next generations.


The Question No One Asks

“On earth peace to men on whom His favor rests…” Luke 2:14

How does one make sense of such senseless acts as the deliberate killing of innocent children in a school classroom? The evil that prowled the halls of Sandy Hook Elementary in Newtown, Connecticut on Friday has shaken all of us. Those of us who are parents can only imagine the pain and anguish the parents of these murdered children must feel. The loss of a child at anytime is nearly unbearable, but like this…just before Christmas. This just should not be, and we all know it.

Yet it is. At a time when songs of ‘peace on earth’ and celebrations of the most miraculous event ever—the birth of the Christ-child—should dominate our lives, instead, our peace is invaded by the cries of mothers and fathers whose children have been ruthlessly stolen from them. Ceaseless tears interrupt our Christmas cheer. Questions of ‘why’ abound. And at the forefront of those questions is the big ‘why?’—why would God allow such madness and savagery? It doesn’t make sense, or does it?

We forget that the Prince of Peace came into this world amid similar barbarism. A twisted and evil savage named Herod murdered the toddlers of an entire town. Jesus knew that the forces of evil would stop at nothing to obliterate all that is good. That is why He reminded the disciples that we would have trouble in this world (Jn. 16:33). We do not have to look far to find examples of other Sandy Hook-like treacheries or worse in our world or our history. In moments of tragedy like this it may seem that peace on earth is nothing more than a meaningless religious cliche.

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You Better Watch Out?

“Give and it will be given to you…” Lk. 6:38

Do you remember this Christmas song...?

You better watch out, you better not cry,
You better not pout, I’m telling you why,
Santa Claus is comin’ to town…

He’s making a list, he’s checking it twice,
Gonna find out who’s naughty or nice.
Santa Claus is comin’ to town.

As a child, I found the tune delightful, but struggled at times with how to reconcile the lyrics with the message of Christmas and the spirit of giving. In some countries, the custom of putting shoes or stockings out on St. Nicholas Day (Dec. 6th) includes a warning that if you are not nice, St. Nicholas may leave you a lump of coal or a switch instead of something nice. Now that certainly makes the season bright, doesn’t it?

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Cavin's Christmas Gift Recommendations

At this time of year everyone is thinking about Christmas gifts. If you haven't already finished your Christmas shopping, I have a few suggestions for you to consider this year. Even if you have done your shopping, you might find some things on this list that would make good stocking stuffers.

If your children or grandchildren are looking for gift ideas for you, many of the items on my list would be good suggestions to pass on to them.

We tend to think in terms of toys and electronic gadgets for gifts for our grandchildren. Why not give them gifts that have a more lasting value and impact in their lives. I believe we need to encourage our grandkids to read more. That's why many of my suggestions include good books for them to read.


Here are my Christmas Gift Recommendations…

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The Balancing Act Called "Tradition"

“Three times a year you are to celebrate a festival to me.” Exodus 23:14

Traditions and ceremony are God’s idea—not man’s. He gave Israel certain celebrations to observe for a reason. These holy day traditions provide a concrete, meaningful way to preserve the truth and wonder of God’s story of love and grace for all generations. Knowing how prone we are to forget, God prescribed tangible, recurring reminders of who we are, who He is, and what He has done for us.

I love the film and stage play, Fiddler On The Roof. The main character in the story, Tevye, struggles to keep his balance on that precarious perch between preserving long-established traditions that have provided stability and identity for generations, and adapting to a changing world that challenges those traditions, even in his own family. His simple credo that says “without traditions, our lives would be as shaky as a fiddler on the roof” is suddenly shaken. Tevye is forced to wrestle with what should be changed and where the line between change and tradition must be drawn to keep from losing his balance.

I wonder, how many even wrestle with such critical questions today?

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GiveThanks...and Tell the Next Generations!

Enter into His gates with thanksgiving and into His courts with praise; be thankful unto Him, and bless His name. For the Lord is good, His mercy is everlasting, and His truth endures to all generations. Psalm 100:4-5

Thanksgiving is already here. Can you believe it? I know it’s here because that’s when my wife starts playing Christmas music in our home. Wasn’t it yesterday that we celebrated Labor Day? It’s no trite saying that time flies as you get older. You and I both know how true that is.

I do have to say, however, that I look forward to the approaching holy-days, and not just because family comes together. I love it because these holidays inspire a time to pause (even if it’s a brief pause) and ponder the splendor and goodness of God. It’s easy in times of abundance and plenty to forget the source of our good gifts and focus on the stuff. In times of adversity it can be challenging to remember all the goodness God continually provides, and focus on the pain.

Unquestionably, the Pilgrims knew about adversity that first year especially after arriving at New Plymouth on the Mayflower. Within their first four months together nearly half of the 106 souls who began the journey to the New World died. Yet, they never failed to give thanks to God for what they did have, as little as it was. They knew that struggles could make them bitter, or make them better. They choose better.

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